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WHAT IF I GET AROUSED DURING MY MASSAGE?
I am very proud of the work I do and the benefits massage provide and take my client care very seriously.
There is a trend in the initial inquiry stage with questions like; “What kind of massage do you do?” or “Do I have to be naked?” and then of course the question its all leading to “what if I get aroused?”
The truth of the matter is that, no matter who it is, male or female, gay or straight, massage is a sensual experience.
Touching another person’s ears, neck or the small of their back is intimate.
These are areas we usually reserve for the people we are close to, the people we trust.
This “trust” of a stranger to touch you at your most vulnerable is what makes it liberating and sensual.
But…is it sexual???
Preferences change from one client to the next and part of my service is adapting to each individuals needs and level of comfort.
Some will keep their shorts on, take two towels and take comfort in the fact that less is exposed on my table than would normally be at the beach.
Some others are happier to be completely at ease and lay as nature intended, no underwear no towels.
This does provide the better massage. Not being restricted by underwear or towel drapery means I can follow the line of muscles without “crossing” the line.
But does it happen?
Well of course it does in some cases, men are pre-programmed to react to touch and sensations but it is not a given and in my experience is short lived.
Once the initial wave of sensuality has swept over them and they relax into the massage it subsides and sexuality is replaced with sensuality.
I never mention it, simply because this is not “the elephant in the room.”
I don’t mention it because it doesn’t require mentioning any more than I would mention the slowing of their breathing, rosacea of the skin or the snoring that occasionally enters the mix.
I now have clients who specifically come to me because they are provided with a professional massage in an environment where they can be a total ease with their bodies.
There is no unspoken question about a sexual experience, that’s not what they are there for but they can feel sexually energized and liberated by the hour or two hours they spend with me.
A client I recently worked with shared a very valid point…
Men forget to focus on themselves, they look at what they need to do and avoid really taking some time just “be.”
Wherever you are in the world I think that is sound advice and be it a massage or a traditional wet shave, a quiet spot on hill overlooking the city, take five for you and just “BE.”
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