Are You Okay?

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JACK ADAMS
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I get asked this question a lot, “Are you okay?”

So here is just my honest answer, because it is not always appropriate to say at the time but for those of you reading this and are invested, here is an insight…and maybe, hopefully this helps put things in perspective and helps us all out.

So, the answer to that question, well my first answer is; NO I am not okay, I am sick, my life has changed drastically and I can’t do anything that I used to, I can’t work, I can’t keep running, I can’t go grocery shopping (without being wiped out) – so NO I am not okay.

I hate what is going on and I am frustrated, angry and feel robbed.

Over night I have been forced to live the life of a 90 year old man – but I still have the spirit of a 30 year old man.

BUT I will say this, my attitude is that this is the way things are and I just have to deal with it…so the definition of what okay is, has changed. These are my cards I will play my hand.

So if you want to know if I am coping and dealing and moving on when you ask if I am okay then ya I am okay.

If you want to know if I am okay on the grand scheme of things, the answer is; no I am not okay.

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About turnipHed

turnipHed

turnipHed is the Chief Editor at TURNIPSTYLE, Presenter & Producer of THE VOICE OF TURNIPSTYLE. The lifestyle magazine and podcast for [GBTQ+] Men.

Comments
  • John#1

    02 Oct 2012 (Tuesday)

    Thank you for your honesty and very well said. People don’t mean wrong… they just sometimes have no clue.

    Reply
  • turnipHed#2

    16 Oct 2012 (Tuesday)

    I have received a few private responses to this posting; firstly, I want to say that I do not ever begrudge anyone asking me if I am okay…

    I just wish I knew to what extent they were asking that question.

    Yes, the tone here is a bit harsh and that was not my intention. I just wanted to lay it out there the way it is; just like what I am dealing with is what it is.

    And for any one that reads; please do not be shy about leaving comments. I appreciate the sentiment and you can be just as personal here as with an email…plus you can help me achieve one of the goals I had when I started this blog…

    INSPIRE CONVERSATION!

    Thanks!

    Reply
  • Jay the Hauntcub#3

    18 Nov 2012 (Sunday)

    Love you, my friend.

    Reply

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