We Gladly Feast Upon Those Who Would Subdue Us. Not just pretty words… *bonus points if you can tell me what movie this is from.
This is going to be a A Strongly Worded Letter to Kim Evans of Petals and Promises Wedding Flowers, with a bit of commentary to bring the rest of you up to speed.
I came across an article from a few sources this morning and had to not only share it with you but of course take the chance to share my 2 cents, yet again. » 01
Source :: Florist refuses to outfit same-sex couple’s wedding – CBC
So as it appears, a florist in Riverview, New Brunswick has refused to provide the flowers for a marriage ceremony for a same-sex couple. Yes, I just heard the needle scratch across the record there!
The florist is quoted as saying in an email to the client;
I am choosing to decline your business. As a born-again Christian, I must respect my conscience before God and have no part in this matter.
Well sorry to tell you this and perhaps embarrass you in a public forum, oh you know what, NO I am not sorry to tell you this, Petals and Promises, YOU SCREWED UP!
See I am not sure what your background is or how long you have been in Canada but we have this handy-dandy piece of paper which is legal documentation called the Charter of Human Rights and Freedoms.
While you are more than enabled to live your life the way you deem fit, within the law, the catch phrase there is “within the law”.
As a business person, in Canada, you can NOT choose who you will and will not do business with unless they break the law.
No one will force you to do business with someone that does not uphold and respect, what I hate to say here as it will sound like a cliché, the “law of the land.”
Here is the part that really adds the icing to the cake, my dear Kim Evans, you just broke the law!
We do not even have to take this to a Federal level, at the Provincial level in the province of New Brunswick there is this document you may not have heard of and it is called the New Brunswick Human Rights Act and it states clearly that; “anyone doing business in the province cannot refuse customers based on race, religion or sexual orientation.”
Regardless, here is the thing you need to realise, in Canada, the same rights that are afforded you, you must extend to your fellow citizens.
Don’t like it? Then get out! » 02
I have to commend this commentary in the article, as it follows not only the provincial as well as the federal statutes;
Eldon Hay, a United Church minister in Sackville and a well-known gay rights advocate, said he still sympathizes with the florist.
“The shopkeeper has every right to her own convictions as long as she is a private citizen in her own house,” Hay said.
“But if she opens her doors to sell flowers, then she must be prepared to meet and deal with the public.”
And there you have it folks.
So again I am inclined to say, “Get off the cross. Some one needs the wood!”
There are bigger issues to deal with, lets talk about and focus on um I don’t know, global literacy, clean drinking water for everyone, access to medical, education…and in this case stop worrying about who the fuck the roses are for. ((I really hope they weren’t roses, too blah))
The last time I looked, my money had the same; Prime Ministers and Queen on it, my VISA card and Mastercard had the same logos and when I went to shop with either I got the same tomatoes as the next person…funny how that works…EH?
Tabarnac.
Caulice.
Vraiment?
Franchement!
Madame Evans, le Monsieur içi n’est pas content…
Madame Evans, ici, tu dois faire plus que “faites l’étoile”
Honte!
I am so glad that here in Canada there is a recourse for this kind of behaviour, which, is not tolerated. I wish it was the same for all the people I care about, all around the world…
I find it a bit ironic that I am writing about this now today and last night I wrote about a couple desperate to get married in California.
Here Are the Foot Notes…
Don’t forget to go back up and keep reading….
deo24dd
17 March 2011 at 11:56:52
I agree with your article, this is very embarrassing for me to say I am from New Brunswick when we still have backwards minded people like this…
I find it ironic that these so called born again Christians only take from the bible small little parts but NEVER seem to care about the part where we should not judge others, (guess that part must be in the new testament or written in the fine print in the back) a True christian does not judge others and if there faith is truly so great and they believe in it so much “The One Up there” will do the Judging when it’s time…
Unless… wait, is she god since she can judge others… I hope not cause we are all in trouble if she is…. heheh That’s my Rant sorry..
readyboy4fun
19 March 2011 at 11:12:29
Okay… so this is such a touchy topic, and I’m speaking from experience being a Christian…
On one hand, you have to respect that she has her convictions about her faith, and one can disagree with gay marriage but not be judging…. however, the law is also in play here… yes her Christian values say one thing, but she is in a business and therefore obligated..
As for me, this has always been a conflict for me as a BA Christian… though my faith says it is wrong, I am a believer in love however it comes… hetero marriage is full of much divorce and debauchery as well, so being gay should not influence whether it is right or wrong… I believe marriage is about love and if you found someone you love and want to spend the rest of your life with, all the power to you!!!
You are correct that we are not the ones who can judge, that is God’s job, not ours! Judgement is not something we should be taking on. I’ve had friends in positions where their Christian values were being put to the test and they had to make the choice to step away from the job to avoid having to make the choice. This was their decision and a hard one at that… In this case, if she wants to be bigotted and discriminatory, she should probably think twice about the line of work she is in…
God loves all his creations.. and just because someone is gay, does not mean they are loved by God any less. Though the bible will talk about what it doesn’t agree with, it does come back to love and that goes without saying..
Thanks for letting me rant..
turnipHed
20 March 2011 at 11:25:37
You are more than welcome to rant here ANYTIME you feel compelled to. That is what we are here for.
Personal beliefs are exactly that, personal. Business is not personal so having said that she does not have a leg to stand on here.
She is more than welcome to think or believe what she wants on her own time and dime…not someone else’s.
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